Do I have to decide on burial or cremation immediately?

No. The funeral home needs enough information to arrange transportation and ensure the body is properly stored - but you do not need to finalize service decisions in the first call. You typically have 24-48 hours to make these decisions without any urgency.

What if I don't have a funeral home chosen?

Call any licensed funeral home in your area to arrange transportation. You can compare options in the hours that follow. A few minutes of research before the first call is worthwhile if you have any time at all.

Do I need to be present when the body is removed?

No. You do not need to be present when the funeral home comes to transport the body. Some families choose to be there; others prefer not to. Both are completely appropriate.

Who officially pronounces the death?

A licensed physician, nurse practitioner, or coroner, depending on the circumstances and your state's laws. In hospice settings, the hospice nurse typically handles this. In unexpected or unattended deaths, law enforcement and the medical examiner are involved.

What if there is no money for a funeral right now?

Tell the funeral home your situation directly. Many will work with families on timing, payment plans, or lower-cost options. Direct cremation is typically the most affordable option, ranging from $700-$2,000 depending on the provider and region. Some states also have low-income burial assistance programs through county or state social services.

Should I tell young children right away?

Yes - in age-appropriate terms. Child development specialists and grief counselors consistently recommend telling children the truth simply, clearly, and as soon as possible. Children sense when something is wrong; honest information is better than uncertainty (American Academy of Pediatrics; The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families). Need help writing an obituary? Use Obitley's free obituary tool. Need to find a funeral home? Search the Obitley Business Directory.*

What to Do in the First 24 Hours After a Death

Published March 23, 2026

A clear, step-by-step guide to the immediate hours after a loved one dies — what needs to happen, what can wait, and how to take care of yourself and your family.