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Latest guidance and stories from Obitley contributors and providers.
Death doulas and hospice are not the same thing, and knowing the difference can shape the entire experience of dying. Hospice is a Medicare-covered medical program for people with a terminal prognosis of six months or less — nursing visits, medications, equipment, and family bereavement support included. A death doula is a non-medical practitioner who provides emotional, spiritual, and practical support with no eligibility requirements and no insurance coverage. Both serve a real purpose. Many families use both at the same time. This guide explains what each one is, what it costs, when each applies, and how they work together.
Apr 29, 2026
Embalming is almost never legally required in the United States — but families pay for it every year without knowing they could refuse. Under the FTC Funeral Rule, funeral homes must disclose in writing that embalming is not required by law except in narrow circumstances, and they cannot perform it without your explicit consent. Refrigeration is a legal alternative that typically costs $50–$100 per day compared to $500–$900 or more for embalming. This guide explains your rights and exactly what to say to use them.
Apr 24, 2026
Embalming is almost never legally required in the United States — but families pay for it every year without knowing they could refuse. Under the FTC Funeral Rule, funeral homes must disclose in writing that embalming is not required by law except in narrow circumstances, and they cannot perform it without your explicit consent. Refrigeration is a legal alternative that typically costs $50–$100 per day compared to $500–$900 or more for embalming. This guide explains your rights and exactly what to say to use them.
Apr 23, 2026
Financial help for funeral costs exists, but it's fragmented, poorly publicized, and almost never offered automatically. Veterans may qualify for up to $2,000 in burial benefits plus free interment in a national cemetery. FEMA has provided up to $9,000 for COVID-related funeral costs. Every state has some form of indigent burial assistance. This guide covers every source of help, what it covers, who qualifies, and the exact questions to ask your funeral home that most families never think to ask.
Apr 21, 2026
Ninety percent of Americans say talking about end-of-life wishes is important. Fewer than thirty percent have done it. The gap is almost always the same thing: not knowing how to start. This guide covers the four categories every family needs to address — medical wishes, legal and financial documents, digital accounts, and personal legacy — and gives you specific conversation starters that actually work, drawn from frameworks used by The Conversation Project and Five Wishes.
Apr 16, 2026
Human composting is now legal in New York State. Alkaline hydrolysis is not. If you're a New York family considering an eco-conscious burial option, those two facts matter — and they're often confused. This guide explains exactly what is and isn't available in New York right now, which providers serve Buffalo, Rochester, and Albany, and what families should ask before making a decision.
Apr 15, 2026
In the hours after a pet dies, most families don't know what to do first — and don't know they have real choices. This guide walks through every step: what to do in the first few hours, how to contact your vet, the difference between private cremation, communal cremation, home burial, and pet cemetery burial, what each option costs in 2026, and how to honor your pet's memory when you're ready. There are no wrong decisions here, only the ones that feel right for your family.
Apr 13, 2026
The median funeral cost in the United States is $8,300, but what families actually pay varies dramatically by state, provider, and the choices they make. A traditional funeral with burial in Mississippi averages around $6,800. The same service in California can exceed $14,000. This guide breaks down average funeral costs across 17 states, explains the biggest price drivers, and shows exactly where families can spend less without sacrificing what matters.
Apr 13, 2026
Losing a pet is one of the hardest experiences a family can face. In the hours and days after, you'll need to make decisions about your pet's remains, often without knowing what your options actually are, or what they cost.
This guide explains the three types of pet cremation, what each one means, and what you should expect to pay in 2026. There are no wrong answers here, only the one that feels right for your family.
Apr 7, 2026
Obitley vs Legacy.com: Which Obituary Platform Is Right for You? Published by Obitley Voices|Updated 2026|Reading time: 5 min Quick Answer Obitley.com and Legacy.com serve different purposes. Obitley is an online obituar
Apr 3, 2026
Writing an obituary can be emotionally overwhelming. Online obituary writers help families create meaningful, accurate tributes quickly. The best tools for 2026 include Obitley (best for guided writing), Legacy.com (best for newspaper publishing), Ever Loved (best for full memorial pages), and GatheringUs (best for virtual services).
Apr 1, 2026
When a family needs a funeral home today, they search online first — usually on a mobile phone, often within minutes of a death. What comes up in that search determines who gets the call. This article breaks down how families actually search, what they look at before calling, and what it means for funeral homes trying to serve their local community.
Mar 30, 2026